Comments on: Anorexia is Not Beautiful https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/ Journalist / Photographer Thu, 29 Sep 2016 07:13:18 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.8.10 By: Nimitha Shetty https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-69044 Thu, 15 May 2014 14:28:32 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-69044 Hey Thankyou but IM A VICTIM! Im an Indian,174cms tall,From my childhood all (family,parents,sisters)started calling me names like- Fatty,fatso,fatttt…… even though I was of a medium size but I started feeling Im really fat like people tell…,and IT STARTED!!! I started Fasting(water fast) ,I only drank water!all day I dreamt about food but never ate!I started lying to my parents that I ate…. I started Fasting and My Periods stopped,Hair stopped growing and it looked dead,My back bone started paining,my ribs started hurting,I couldn’t walk properly and my voice changed,My bowel movements stopped,I only urinated…… I was an excellent student but now? Im flunking…. no memory… All I want to say is PLEASE GIRLS AND BOYS STOP wanting to look skinny!!If they call you fat its thier problem let they Love the way you are or tell them to GET LIFE
I’m in a worst situation…I was Happy before but Now? I look like worster than a skeleton….Im 17 and it all started 6months back… I will die any day…who knows? Due to kidney failure or heart attack! LOVE THE WAY YOU ARE ,never change for others.

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By: sanjay austa https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-3207 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 10:14:42 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-3207 In reply to Bipasha.

Hi Bipasha,
Thanks I am glad my article found some resonance with you. Hope you remain pleasantly plump. 🙂

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By: Bipasha https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-3205 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 10:07:36 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-3205 Hi Sanjay,

This was a nice read. I used to be very thin and now that I am nearing my thirties I am pleasantly plump (I like calling myself that) and believe me I am happier now. I look nice, my skin glows and I am not bothered if my waist size is 29 and not 24 inches. I am a prettier woman today. There are times when references are made that I should lose weight and I reply that you wouldn’t have said so if you see my thin pictures. 🙂 And, yes who would want to sleep with a bag of bones and get poked. Bones do come in the way 😛

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By: sanjay austa https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-1668 Mon, 05 Sep 2011 04:53:53 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-1668 In reply to AJ.

Hi Aj,
I am glad your liked the article. I agree with you. Sadly the trend to grow skinnier is only growing worldwide.

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By: AJ https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-1661 Sun, 04 Sep 2011 09:13:17 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-1661 Lovely read and a very relevant article Sanjay. It is indeed sad but true that a trickle effect exists in that, we see really thin women being projected as the ultimate beauty and the idea gets ingrained in our minds too. Gradually we start hating the way we look and end up as victims of such disorders.

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By: sanjay austa https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-850 Wed, 25 May 2011 15:06:17 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-850 In reply to xelocin.

Hi Nicole,
Im glad you liked the article. Thanks

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By: xelocin https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-848 Tue, 24 May 2011 19:21:26 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-848 Enlightening article. Sad that younger and younger girls fall prey to eating disorders like anorexia nervosa and bulimia. It’s essential to know how fatal these disorders are and how many models actually die due to self starvation.

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By: sanjay austa https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-830 Sat, 21 May 2011 04:22:22 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-830 In reply to Shibani.

Shibani,
Thanks for your comment. I agree Anorexia is a disease or a condition. But unfortunately unlike obesity not many people think it is a disease or a condition. The article was more specifically about the fashion industry and how they encourage anorexia. In the fashion world anorexia is not considered a disease. It is a choice models make to remain in the business. The audience of the article is more specifically the fashion fraternity and the article was in fact published in a fashion supplement of The Times.
The article is certainly not about women genetically anorexic. It is perhaps against the idea of Anorexia as a `cool’ condition to be in. But yes it certainly about the `thousands of normal women who fall prey to the expectations of friends, lovers, employers and parents’. Its tells them not to fall prey to this overweening peer / parental/societal pressure. That don’ t `become’ anorexic because of others expectations of you and please eat and drink like a normal person. Anorexia is unfortunate only if you are genetically inclined that way and are unable to get out of it. But it is very ugly as a fashion statement. And hence the title.

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By: Shibani https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-825 Fri, 20 May 2011 10:49:11 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-825 Sanjay

Anorexia is a disease, or a condition. Much like Obesity. Would you write an essay called ‘Obesity is Ugly’? Many people who are anorexic (or bulimic, that’s even more painful) don’t wish to be so. Agreed, it is often brought about by the kind of misguided body image expectation that you are writing against, but I feel that you’re alienating your most relevant audience with your title. I know you’re using ‘anorexic’ just as an adjective, but we should pay heed to the thousands of normal women who fall prey to the expectations of friends, lovers, employers and even parents, and BECOME anorexic – i.e., UNABLE to eat and drink like a normal person.
I agree with your essay, but please change the title. Anorexia is unfortunate.
your otherwise fan,
Shibani

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By: sanjay austa https://www.sanjayausta.in/anorexia-is-ugly/#comment-228 Wed, 16 Mar 2011 14:30:41 +0000 http://localhost/fast3cycle_backup/sanjayausta/website/?p=324#comment-228 In reply to Rajat Jamwal.

Thanks Rajat 🙂

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